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Today I’m going to discuss a very important topic which is how to be flexible according to the situation. In the previous post “How to deal with our relationship”, we discussed that to avoid conflicts from your relationship, you should try to change yourself according to your situation.
In this episode, we are going to discuss how you should try to change yourself or how you can be flexible according to your situation. So let’s get started.
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At first, you have to know, why you should be flexible according to your situation. It is not only important for building up a strong relationship with others but also for your existence.
Is it very difficult to understand? Okay, let me make it clear.
Today I want to start this discussion with an interesting example. We all look in the mirror every day to see our face. Is it not true? Yet we forget to learn an important lesson which is written on our face. Do you know what the lesson is?
Go to look in the mirror again and open your mouth. What can you see now?
- Two rows of teeth
Have I said correctly?
Now you have to analyze the above example.
The teeth grow after our birth. They do not grow once rather they grow twice in our childhood although the teeth are perished before our death. Is it not true?
On the other hand, if we take a look at our tongue, then we will see that:
Our tongue belongs to our body before our birth and remains intact even after our death.
Can you describe the inner meaning of the above example? How does it happen?
Our teeth are hard but our tongue is soft although our teeth are perished and our tongue remains intact even after our death.
Because our tongue becomes flexible according to its situation but our teeth are not. That’s why the hard-hearted persons are perished very soon but the persons who can be flexible according to their situation like a Soft climber remains intact for a long time.
Hence, you have to learn the way to be flexible according to your situation to make your life easier. Is not it?
The way is very simple. Just look at the image below.
If I ask you to reach point “B” from point “A”, then how many ways you will get to reach there?
I know what your answer will be. You will say that there is only one simple linear way to reach point “B” from point “A”. Is it not true?
Now tell me,
Will you be able to reach that goal if that “simple linear way “becomes crowded?
Then the only way to reach your goal is to find out other alternative roads. Is not it? Now the question arises,
How can you find out other alternative roads to reach your goal or destination?
Only by exploring new ways you can find out a lot of alternative roads to reach your goal. Is it not true?
Just take a look at the above example. Now tell me,
How many straight lines can be drawn from point “A” to point “B”?
Yes, the answer is “only one.”
But if I ask you,
How many curved lines can be drawn from point “A” to point “B”?
The answer is: “The number will be countless.” Is it not true?
And each curved line will be a new and unique way to reach point “B” from point “A”. Have I said correctly?
Now tell me,
Which of these ways will be very popular and easy to use among them?
The only linear way, as it is the shortest among them. We all like shortcut ways to achieve our goal as they are very easy to use and very popular too. Is it not true? Judge it yourself.
The Similar event happens in our life too. But there is a difference between the two. You can draw a lot of curved lines on a piece of paper from point “A” to point “B” but in the real-life, there are two options available for you to reach your goal.
- You have to find out other existing ways.
- You have to create new ways.
The only way to apply the above two options is exploring. You have to explore new ways and ideas constantly without changing your goal.
Yesterday I met my childhood friend Ajit. He was very depressed as he could not get a government job after trying a lot. Being frustrated he told me, “I wish to commit suicide.”After that, he started crying.
Yes, unemployment is indeed the burning issue in our country. But government job is not the only way for earning money here. There are a lot of options available for it. You just have to find them out and start working on it. Remember that, you can hardly change the system or others but you can change yourself, your point of view. Is it not true?
We have to stop now as we have reached the last stage of this post. But there is still a question in my mind yet to be discussed.
The question is:
What is the point of view?
Do you have the answer to this question?
I must stop now with the hope of having a chance to meet you in the next post.